Brushing extensions may seem like a simple routine, but it is one of the most important parts of maintaining smooth, soft and long-lasting hair. When done incorrectly, brushing can cause unnecessary tension on the bonds, create matting at the roots or lead to early slipping. But when done properly, it protects both your natural hair and your extensions, keeping everything tangle free and beautiful for months. This guide explains how to brush extensions safely, what tools to use and how to prevent pulling on the capsules.
Why Brushing Is Essential for Extensions
Extensions, especially long ones, experience friction every day — from wind, clothing, sleeping and styling. Unlike natural hair, extensions do not receive natural scalp oils that help prevent dryness and tangles. That means brushing isn’t optional; it’s a crucial part of keeping the hair healthy. When brushed routinely and gently, extensions stay soft, manageable and shiny. When brushing is neglected, tangles form at the nape, bonds begin to twist and matting becomes difficult to reverse.
The Right Tools for Safe Brushing
Using the right brush makes the biggest difference. Not every brush is suitable for extensions. Brushes with hard, sharp bristles can snag the bonds or create tension that weakens capsules over time. A proper extension brush glides through the hair without grabbing or pulling
The best tools for brushing extensions:
- A soft-bristle extension brush
- A loop-bristle extension brush designed not to catch bonds
- A wide-tooth comb for separating wet hair
- A small detangling brush for travel or your purse
These tools prevent snagging and keep the capsules intact while letting you detangle safely.
How to Brush Extensions Step by Step
Brushing should always start at the bottom and gradually move upward. This technique avoids placing pressure on the bonds and prevents the hair from stretching or pulling.
Begin by separating your hair into sections. Hold each section firmly near the roots with one hand to stabilize the bonds. With the other hand, gently brush through the mid-lengths and ends first. Only after the ends are smooth should you move higher, working your way slowly toward the scalp. Supporting the roots with your hand is essential — it prevents the weight of the brush from pulling on the capsules.
Repeat this process around the head, paying special attention to the nape area. The hair at the back of the neck rubs against clothing and pillowcases the most, which means it is the first area to tangle. A few seconds of careful brushing in this zone prevents knots from forming and keeps the bonds positioned correctly.
Brushing Wet vs Dry Extensions
Wet hair is more fragile, both natural and extensions. Brushing completely wet hair can stretch the strands and affect the integrity of the bonds. If you need to detangle after washing, always use a wide-tooth comb and apply a lightweight leave-in conditioner to the mid-lengths and ends. Comb gently from the bottom up. Once the hair is 80–90 percent dry, switch to your extension brush for final smoothing.
For daily brushing when the hair is dry, use the extension brush exclusively. This keeps the strands smooth without causing stress to the capsules. For clients who want to support their hair with traditional, non-chemical care methods, we’ve also created a detailed article on botanical treatments: “Herbal Rinses for Healthy Hair: Time-Tested Solutions.”
How Often Should You Brush Your Extensions
Brushing two to three times a day is ideal. Morning, midday and evening brushing prevent knots from forming and keep the hair looking polished. Clients with very long extensions may need a quick pass-through more often, especially after driving, walking outdoors or exercising. The key is consistency — small, gentle brushing sessions are far better than waiting until tangles form.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Several habits can damage both the bonds and your natural hair if you’re not careful. The most common mistake is brushing aggressively from top to bottom. This drags the tension through the bonds and leads to slipping or discomfort. Another mistake is brushing only the surface without separating the hair — this ignores the hidden tangles near the nape. Brushing with the wrong tools, such as hard plastic bristles, can also snag the bonds.
Finally, never brush extensions while lying in bed or while the hair is twisted in a towel. These positions create tension that can loosen the capsules.
Enjoy Smooth, Beautiful Extensions With the Right Routine
Brushing extensions correctly is simple, but it requires attention and the right technique. When you support the roots, choose the correct tools and brush consistently, your extensions stay tangle free, soft and natural for months. This small daily habit is one of the most effective ways to protect both your investment and the long-term health of your hair.
